Adding Menu to my Theme

On one theme I had to add something like
<a href="http://www.yourdomain.com/" title="Home">Home</a> before the wp_list_pages code in the theme’s header.php.

I notice the author of that theme has ‘Home’ choice on their example, so guess you could ask them also.

Another option would be to create a page called Home and then use the Redirectify plugin on that page so you don’t have to modify the theme files.

http://redalt.com/Resources/Plugins/Redirectify/