Title: Cannot set self hosted server
Last modified: March 17, 2020

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# Cannot set self hosted server

 *  Resolved [gsim](https://wordpress.org/support/users/gsim/)
 * (@gsim)
 * [6 years, 2 months ago](https://wordpress.org/support/topic/cannot-set-self-hosted-server/)
 * Hi There
 * I have a new install of WordPress 5.3, buddypress 5.1.2 and buddymeet 1.3.0
 * I have created the group as “Private”, and invited my test user, so the group
   has 1 admin member (myself) and 1 member user.
 * The problem I am having is under the BuddyMeet options on the group page. When
   I tick the “Active” checkbox under “Allow members of this group to enter the 
   same video conference room.” and save the settings the checkbox is not checked.
   Every other setting change I make does get saved though, and I get a message “
   Settings saved successfully”.
 * This means the “Meet” tab never shows up, and am unable to join a conference.
 * There are no messages at all in the console.
 * Any ideas?
 * Thank you.
 * The page I need help with: _[[log in](https://login.wordpress.org/?redirect_to=https%3A%2F%2Fwordpress.org%2Fsupport%2Ftopic%2Fcannot-set-self-hosted-server%2F%3Foutput_format%3Dmd&locale=en_US)
   to see the link]_

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 *  Thread Starter [gsim](https://wordpress.org/support/users/gsim/)
 * (@gsim)
 * [6 years, 2 months ago](https://wordpress.org/support/topic/cannot-set-self-hosted-server/#post-12551507)
 * Just an update. For whatever reason “_buddymeet_enabled” was missing from wp_options,
   so I added it manually. Now It appears to be working, so on the the next challenge……
 *  [tdakanalis](https://wordpress.org/support/users/tdakanalis/)
 * (@tdakanalis)
 * [6 years, 2 months ago](https://wordpress.org/support/topic/cannot-set-self-hosted-server/#post-12553947)
 * Hi,
 * thanks for the feedback. I have added a to-do to thoroughly test and reproduce
   this case. Hope everything runs now smoothly.
 *  Thread Starter [gsim](https://wordpress.org/support/users/gsim/)
 * (@gsim)
 * [6 years, 2 months ago](https://wordpress.org/support/topic/cannot-set-self-hosted-server/#post-12555136)
 * So far so good thank you.
 * I am still working on a few quirks, and if any issues are related to the plugin
   I’ll post them. I am happy however to close this one off then if you are.
 * I did forget to mention I am working on a twentytwenty child theme with minimal
   changes in the child so far, as almost as good as using the twentytwenty parent
   theme.
 *  [tdakanalis](https://wordpress.org/support/users/tdakanalis/)
 * (@tdakanalis)
 * [6 years, 2 months ago](https://wordpress.org/support/topic/cannot-set-self-hosted-server/#post-12555307)
 * Glad to hear!!!

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 * Last activity: [6 years, 2 months ago](https://wordpress.org/support/topic/cannot-set-self-hosted-server/#post-12555307)
 * Status: resolved