Primary Menu, how to remove?

I am putting the entire menu in a widget to keep things simple. I do NOT want the menu showing up in the title/header section but I cannot find anywhere to remove it???? How do I get the page links–home, calendar of events, contact us, directions, etc from the same area as the title? I want them gone (i have put them in the right side widget area instead (which is where most folks are used to seeing them). There is not even a menu set up (normally I can uncheck primary or something, but nothing here). Help!! 🙂 thank you for your time and assistance.

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