Database mirroring between two servers

Hello,

I am running two load balanced servers and want to come up with a good solution to have my site mirrored on the separate servers. One person has mentioned mirroring the databases with Vice Versa software between the two sites. I have also had running a separate database and having both wordpress installs linking back to that.

My main problem now is that when I type in the URL to get to the admin page, I don’t know what server I am logging into as the load balancer decides which one I go to. I can type the IP of each server directly and login that way, but then I must double post which is essentially doubling my workload.

Total noob here so hopefully some of you WordPress pro’s can offer some suggestions!

Thanks!