I’m not sure if I understood your question. But if you are looking for a way to add social connect links into custom places check the HTML below. You basically have to create elements with the same class used by social-connect.
<a id="login-facebook" class="social_connect_login_facebook" href="#">Facebook</a>
<a id="login-google" class="social_connect_login_google" href="#">Google</a>
Yes you understood my question. I want to display “clickable botton” only in sidebar or pages. Don’t want to ask (force) users to login or sign up using wp default username/password form.