I’m sorry to hear that. I and Ben Meredith both were providing guidance on your Support ticket:
https://ww.wp.xz.cn/support/topic/completed-donations-still-show-pending-or-abandoned-in-donations-list/
It seemed you were having trouble with the Stripe webhooks, which we have detailed docs to help overcome — and I’ll reiterate that that is a requirement of Stripe’s, it’s not about GiveWP just something that has to be done when using the latest API from Stripe.
If there are other aspects of our plugin that are frustrating or difficult I’d love to help clarify for you further if possible. Just let us know, we’re here to help.