link inside a post

my wordpress : 1.5 (final)
active plugins : BAStats, Brian’s Latest Comments, Jerome’s Keywords

problem :

when i write new post and inside i put link to the other post eg. index.php?id=34 after send in dashbord i receive information about new comment to linked post eg. id=34 ; this comment it’s my new post; of course in my blog i have new comment too

do you have the same problem ?
do you have any workarround to this problem ?

ps. forgive me my terrible english 😉