[Plugin: SwfObj Plugin: for embedding Flash objects] How to display menu

No menu is showing and it doesn’t look as though a flash player is being used, I’ve tried using menu=”true” after the link, but no joy. Any ideas? The actual swf file is playing, but the controls aren’t showing. I’ve tried uploading the player that I used when creating swf file, but server won’t allow it.
thanks for any ideas.

http://ww.wp.xz.cn/extend/plugins/swfobj/