Theme my login on home.php

Hi Fellows.
I have some questions that I want to get an answer if it can be done.

I make use of “theme my login”. I would like to have “login and password” to be on my home.php
So far I’ve gotten it up using: <? Php theme_my_login (array (‘default_action’ => ‘login’, ‘show_title’ => 0)); ?>

1: Is it possible to style it as I will, if yes, which file should I take to change the style?

2: I would like to remove the “lost password”. I have searched and found to be entering a short code but this does not seem right when I use a. php page. Which file should I remove this?

// Thanks for your time