wordpress.com stats plugin and subdomains

how do I go about excluding my own domain and sub domains from the wordpress.com stats plugin? I’ve done a dozen or so Google searches, and even tried the plugin/forum search and I’m not seeing any solutions for this 🙁

all I see on my referral and “links clicked” are my own urls and sub domains.

this is so confusing, omg, someone please help me, my pants are on fire!