found a maybe.. thanks here
$posts = get_posts('&order=asc&exclude=1&format=custom' );
if($posts){
echo "<ul id=\"xoxo\">\n";
foreach ($posts as $post) {
echo '<li><a href="'.get_permalink($post->ID).'">'.$post->post_title.'</a></li>';
echo '</ul>';
} // end if($posts)
