Hi,
I also had a problem with comments not getting auto-synchronized. I am using nginx, php5-fpm and the Disqus plugin.
The solution at the following URL helped:
http://serverfault.com/questions/231578/nginx-php-fpm-where-are-my-get-params
I agree with the previous requesters.
There is no need to load additional CSS and JS on every page. It would be appropriate to load them only when needed (when there is a form on the page).
A site may have hundreds of pages but a contact form only on a single page!