Okay , it is my theme making the problems.
Okay , I fixed it. I made a custom menu->edit menus “menu 1” .I assigned my menu elements to it , then i went to menus->manage locations and selected “menu 1” as primary menu. 🙂
I use Firefox , but i cant tell what the issue is , believe me i sat up to 5 in the morning to try to figure it out.
The only thing i found out was that when i went to settings->reading and didnt set any postpage the sidebar came on the right side but now the home tab showed up in the menu two times with different names
example http://www.gofishing.no/?page_id=131