Yep, I will just work with the plugins that can find the time to play well with each other and use them. I don’t have time to troubleshoot someone else’s code for them, its why i use plugins in the first place.
I am on 1.9.13, When I update my site goes down and i have to ftp in and remove the plugin, and re-install 1.9.13
the easiest way without hacking up the built in wp code is to download this plugin.
http://ww.wp.xz.cn/extend/plugins/customize-meta-widget/